“Behold, your mother.” | Memorial of Our Lady of Sorrows | 9.15.23

A reading from the holy Gospel according to Luke (Lk 2:33-35)

Standing by the cross of Jesus were his mother and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple there whom he loved he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son.” Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother.” And from that hour the disciple took her into his home.

From the cross, Jesus entrusts to Mary the maternal care of John, the disciple whom Jesus loved. By doing this, Jesus extends this gift from the cross to all people who believe and follow him. At the same time, he says to John: “Behold, your mother.” As Jesus entrusts his mother to the care of the beloved disciple, and by extension, to the care of the Church and all believers, he directs our gaze to divine love. The twofold charge to behold Mary Our Mother and to be beheld by her refers to a relationship like that between God the Father and Jesus his Son. John’s response exemplifies what our response should be to Jesus’ loving invitation: “And from that hour the disciple took her into his home.”

Father in heaven, thank you for sending your Son into the world—into the midst of evil, sin, and death—to save us from the darkness of sin and to destroy death through the death and resurrection of your Son. Thank you, Jesus, for the profound words you spoke as you were dying on the cross. You entrusted your mother to the disciple John and to all disciples, making her the spiritual mother of all Christians. Mary, Lady of Sorrows, you entered into the Passion of your Son, united with him at the foot of the cross. Pray for us sinners; teach me to love your Son as you love him. Mother of mercy, hear our prayers!

From the Gospel acclamation: “Blessed are you, O Virgin Mary; without dying you won the martyr’s crown beneath the Cross of the Lord.”

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

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Memorial of Our Lady of Sorrows

When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple there whom he loved he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son.” Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother.” And from that hour the disciple took her into his home.

As Jesus is dying on the cross in great pain and suffering, he thinks about his mother and uses some of his lasts breath to see to her care. Why? Because Jesus knew that Mary would be the means of bringing sinners to her son and to his divine mercy. This is not the only place in Scripture where those who love Mary are told to take her into their home. When Joseph learned that Mary was pregnant, he wanted to quietly divorce her. But an angel of the Lord came to him and said, “Do not be afraid to take Mary into your home.” Jesus asks his beloved disciple John to take care of his mother and thus asks any of his beloved children to take Mary into their home.

From the Stabat Mater come these lines:

O sweet Mother! font of love,
Touch my spirit from above,
Make my heart with yours accord.

Make me feel as you have felt;
Make my soul to glow and melt
With the love of Christ, my Lord.

And that is what Mary does best: she hears our prayers from above and melts the stoniest of hearts with love of Christ. And although Joseph was not present at the foot of the cross, I know he must have been present in unity with Jesus and Mary. I want to understand what it means to be in company throughout the day with the Holy Family. I imagine myself walking with Mary and Joseph ahead of me and Jesus behind to lead and guide. Knowing this is no flight of fancy—that Jesus, Mary, and Joseph, are present with me—brings a great sense of peace grounded in ultimate reality and truth. This is the truth of the Gospel, as Saint Paul puts it: “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever. . . . For here we have no lasting city, but we seek the one that is to come.”

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit. As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

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